When I read the title, “My Bodies of the Year,” I fully
expected it to be full of reflections of how great this person looked at this
specific time. However, I realize now that my first impression was way off.
Morris’ argument about how the last 12 months were “unsexy months” is true and false
at the same time. When I look at a picture of Mathew McConaughey clothed, I
think he is attractive. I notice things like his eyes and his smile. However,
when I look at a picture of him shirtless, that’s when the word sexy comes to
mind. This example that Morris explained was completely true. I like Mathew
McConaughey. When I ask myself why, it is mainly based off of what he looks
like and the certain characters that he plays (my favorite movie of all time, “How
to Lose a Guy in 10 Days,” is where my love for him began). On the other hand,
when I look at pictures of women, for example, Katy Perry, the word sexy never
comes to mind. This is where I think Morris is wrong. Maybe it is because I am
a girl, but when I look at Katy, I see a strong and successful woman. She
respects herself, which I think is “sexier” than her body. When I look at Kim Kardashian,
I don’t see a sexy woman. Instead, I see a woman who tries to use her body to
get what she wants by being the actual definition of sexy. That is definitely not
sexy in my book.
Bodies have always mattered. It is the very first impression
one will ever make. Bodies are important because they define us. They describe
our eating habits, self-confidence, and style. The bodies we associate ourselves
with can also describe our personalities and interests. I believe that bodies
matter more now than they did 10 years ago. I know the women size situation has
been used multiple times, but I’m going to use it yet again. Most women these
days are not a size 0. However, the vast majority of the models who advertise
our clothes and tell us what “sexy” is (Victoria Secret Models) are 6 feet tall
and weigh 95 pounds. Why are women held to such a high standard when in
reality, the models are not the norm. But why does it matter? Why can’t a woman
look the way she is naturally made? Granted, the USA is very unhealthy and 60%
of women do not exercise regularly for more than 10 minutes each time (as told
to me by my Zumba instructor). That’s off topic, but, what I’m trying to say is
bodies have become such a big part of society, that they not only have positive
effects, but also negative effects.
In conclusion, Morris is right. We care about bodies way too
much. We should spend less time wondering how much she weighs or if she can
twerk right and start focusing on things in life that really matter. The more
we study bodies, the more superficial we, as a nation, become. So we should all
pick up a book, because nothing is “sexier” than that.
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